About Me

It’s never too late to start

Life’s journey often takes us down unexpected paths, yet every experience enriches us, better preparing us to chase our goals, regardless of age. Remember, resilience and passion know no age limits. Embracing your dreams today serves as a reminder that fulfillment isn’t dictated by time but by the courage to begin wherever you are.

I often say that age is a mindset. While some might think I say this solely to maintain my youthful appearance (which I do aim to preserve), this belief has become my guiding principle for many reasons. Everyone’s journey is unique, and I firmly believe that a person’s mindset isn’t tied to their age. I became a mother at a young age, which pushed my mindset ahead of my years; yet now, with most of my children grown, I feel younger than ever. Throughout my motherhood journey, I’ve learned a crucial lesson: my identity extends beyond being “mom.” I cherish my family and the role of a mother, but I am also my own person, with a full range of emotions. My identity is uniquely mine. I know I’m not alone in this realization. If you’re interested, I’d love to connect with others seeking to discover who they are outside of motherhood.

My name is Vialta Lopez and here’s my journey…

2000

Became a teenage model.

2003

Became a teenage mother in my senior year of high school. Despite this, I started college right away. 

2005

Broke off my relationship with my high school sweetheart and became a single mother. 

2006

I dropped out of college and moved out of state with my daughter. 

2007

Attempted to start a modeling agency, my first business. 

2008

I closed the modeling agency and returned home to Miami, to give myself and my daughter the opportunity to be closer to the family. I later found out my parents were separated. 

2009

Decided to give college another try. Registered for my Associate’s In Criminal Administration. 

2010

Fell in LOVE with a single father of 3! My family of 2 became a Family of 6!

2011

I SAID YES!!! We got engaged. I completed my associate’s degree and we started my second business, a security company. 

2013

I said I DO!

2014

Closed our security company and started saving for a house. 

2015

Decided to further my education and go to for my Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration. I also intended to open a modeling school but I didn’t get past furnishing the place. 

2016

Officially became a HOME OWNER! 

2017

Graduated with my Bachelor’s in Business Administration, opened 2 businesses (Fit Dynamics and Train2Survive) and then was blessed with the news of baby number 5!

2018

My baby girl was born and then we were 7!

2019

Decided to pursue my Master’s degree in Public Administration. 

2020

Had to pause school along with the rest of the world. 

2023

Returned to finish my Master’s degree and graduated with my husband. We both walked the stage together. I was not done though, I decided to pursue a second Master’s degree. 

2024

Closed one of my businesses, Fit Dynamics. Graduated with my second Master’s degree in Project Management from my dream school and started this beautiful community Outside Motherhood.

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